Do You Have a Narcissistic Mother?

Are You a Daughter of a Narcissistic Mother? Take This Brief Survey to Find Out.

Narcissism is a spectrum disorder with the most severe end of the spectrum considered a narcissistic personality disorder. A woman can have several narcissistic traits and not fit the personality disorder. Mothers with only a few traits listed can negatively affect their daughters in insidious ways which is explained in Dr. McBride’s book.

This checklist is copyrighted and comes directly from my book: Will I Ever Be Good Enough? Healing The Daughters of Narcissistic Mothers

(Check all those that apply to your relationship with your mother)

  • When you discuss your life issues with your mother, does she divert the discussion to talk about herself?
  • When you discuss your feelings with your mother, does she try to top the feeling with her own?
  • Does your mother act jealous of you?
  • Does your mother lack empathy for your feelings?
  • Does your mother only support those things you do that reflect on her as a “good mother"?
  • Have you consistently felt a lack of emotional closeness with your mother?
  • Have you consistently questioned whether or not your mother likes you or loves you?
  • Does your mother only do things for you when others can see?
  • When something happens in your life (accident, illness, divorce) does your mother react with how it will affect her rather than how you feel?
  • Is or was your mother overly conscious of what others think (neighbors, friends, family, co-workers)?
  • Does your mother deny her own feelings?
  • Does your mother blame things on you or others rather than own responsibility for her feelings or actions?
  • Is or was your mother hurt easily and then carried a grudge for a long time without resolving the problem?
  • Do you feel you were a slave to your mother?
  • Do you feel you were responsible for your mother’s ailments or sickness (headaches, stress, illness)?
  • Did you have to take care of your mother’s physical needs as a child?
  • Do you feel unaccepted by your mother?
  • Do you feel your mother was critical of you?
  • Do you feel helpless in the presence of your mother?
  • Are you shamed often by your mother?
  • Do you feel your mother knows the real you?
  • Does your mother act like the world should revolve around her?
  • Do you find it difficult to be a separate person from your mother?
  • Does your mother appear phony to you?
  • Does your mother want to control your choices?
  • Does your mother swing from egotistical to a depressed mood?
  • Did you feel you had to take care of your mother’s emotional needs as a child?
  • Do you feel manipulated in the presence of your mother?
  • Do you feel valued by mother for what you do rather than who you are?
  • Is your mother controlling, acting like a victim or martyr?
  • Does your mother make you act different from how you really feel?
  • Does your mother compete with you?
  • Does your mother always have to have things her way?

Do you have narcissistic parents?

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